"Over the last few years as I have approached my 'senior citizen' status I have often thought about getting more involved with charity work, 'putting something back' etc. As I am still working four days a week I felt my usefulness would be limited and also worried about perhaps making a promise I could not keep.

Having looked at the website of the Child Bereavement Charity I felt it would be a charity that I would want to be involved with. My daughter was 10 when my husband, her father, died after eighteen months of illness. Not only was I dealing with my own grief but I had to be strong for her throughout the years to come.

Twenty-two years ago there was not the support or information available for someone in my situation and grief was not something that was generally discussed, certainly not with children. I felt I wanted to be part of a charity that offered the help and support to families at a difficult time.

I decided to register my interest in becoming a volunteer. I was contacted by Julie and then invited to come up to the offices for a face to face meeting. Far from being made to feel that my contribution would not be enough I was made to feel very welcome and that any time I could give would be appreciated. I have been working with Ian, Emma and Pippa in the fundraising department. One of their projects has been setting up Community Fundraising Committees, so I have been helping with sending out information to those people who have said they would like to become involved. At the moment we are contacting prospective London Marathon 2011 runners who have indicated an interest in running on behalf of CBC.

I have spoken to a variety of people and listened to some heart warming stories during this process. My partner and I had an enjoyable day supporting the team at the Neptune City Sevens with all the proceeds in aid of the Child Bereavement Charity. I did not volunteer to wear the animal costume but became quite proficient at my bucket rattling!

I certainly enjoy the time I spend at the offices – now the new offices at The Clare Foundation. I only wish I could give more time but Ian and Emma always make me feel that my time has been productive and appreciated whether it has been for one hour or for three hours."